Maybe to elaborate: I had a lot of neurotypical friends, and a lot of autistic friends, and barely any of them have ever called me up years later to talk if we didn’t have some kind of social context. It seems like this is not a thing people do very often.
I’ve had two people do this to me. It didn’t register to me what they were doing at the time. But I also have a kind of different friend group than most rationalists.
Maybe to elaborate: I had a lot of neurotypical friends, and a lot of autistic friends, and barely any of them have ever called me up years later to talk if we didn’t have some kind of social context. It seems like this is not a thing people do very often.
I’ve had two people do this to me. It didn’t register to me what they were doing at the time. But I also have a kind of different friend group than most rationalists.