Yeah, +1 for not “hiding” behind Tell Culture to save effort.
One of the fixes for the anxiety thing is Circling/Focusing/pair debugging culture, which goes a loooooong way toward both a) building the trust and safety required to bring up such issues with less anxiety and b) actually providing Schelling points for when to say it. We’re also doing a weekly retrospective where it’ll be low-cost and high-support to gently point at such things.
Yeah, +1 for not “hiding” behind Tell Culture to save effort.
One of the fixes for the anxiety thing is Circling/Focusing/pair debugging culture, which goes a loooooong way toward both a) building the trust and safety required to bring up such issues with less anxiety and b) actually providing Schelling points for when to say it. We’re also doing a weekly retrospective where it’ll be low-cost and high-support to gently point at such things.