I’m not always as unreasonable as suggested there, but I was mainly trying to point out that if I refuse to go along with certain ideas, it’s not dependent on a controversial theory of meta-ethics. It’s just that I intuitively don’t like the ideas and so reject them out of hand. Most people do this with ideas they find too unintuitive to countenance.
Whether you want to call it a theory of meta-ethics or not, and whether it is a factual error or not, you have an unusual approach to dealing with moral questions that places an unusual amount of emphasis on Brian Tomasik’s present concerns. Maybe this is because there is something very different about you that justifies it, or maybe it is some idiosyncratic blind spot or bias of yours. I think you should put weight on both possibilities, and that this pushes in favor of more moderation in the face of values disagreements. Hope that helps articulate where I’m coming from in your language. This is hard to write and think about.
I think other people are significantly more responsive to values disagreements than Brian is, and that this suggests they are significantly more open to the possibility that their idiosyncratic personal values judgments are mistaken. You can get a sense of how unusual Brian’s perspectives are by examining his website, where his discussions of negative utilitarianism and insect suffering stand out.