I’ve also been thinking along these lines, anyone remember this part from the opening ceremony?
The young, thin, nervous man who Harry had first met in the Leaky Cauldron slowly made his way up to the podium, glancing fearfully around in all directions. Harry caught a glimpse of the back of his head, and it looked like Professor Quirrell might already be going bald, despite his seeming youth.
“Wonder what’s wrong with him,” whispered the older-looking student sitting next to Harry. Similar hushed comments were being exchanged elsewhere along the table.
Professor Quirrell made his way up to the podium and stood there, blinking. “Ah...” he said. “Ah...” Then his courage seemed to fail him utterly, and he stood there in silence, occasionally twitching.
“Oh, great,” whispered the older student, “looks like another long year in Defence class—”
“Salutations, my young apprentices,” Professor Quirrell said in a dry, confident tone.
It seems to imply that becoming the second victim of a Horcrux might not necessarily create a mishmash of personalities, but instead have them competing as separate (maybe “partially mixed”?) identities. This would also explain why Harry consider his “dark side” different from himself.
Very relevant article from the sequences: Detached Lever Fallacy.
Not saying you’re committing this fallacy, but it does explain some of the bigger problems with “raising an AI like a child” that you might not have thought of.