I think if you frame it as:
if most individuals exist inside the part of the light cone of an alien civilization, why aren’t we one of them?
Then yes, 1.0 influence and 4.0 influence both count as “part of the light cone”, and so for the related anthropic arguments you could choose to group them together.
But re: anthropic arguments,
Not only am I unable to explain why I’m an observer who doesn’t see aliens
This is where I think I have a different perspective. Granting that anthropic arguments (here, about which observer you are and the odds of that) cause frustration and we don’t want to get into them, I think there is an actual reason why we don’t see aliens—maybe they aren’t there, maybe they’re hiding, maybe it’s all a simulation, whatever—and there’s no strong reason to assume we can’t discover that reason. So, in that non-anthropic sense, in a more scientific inquiry sense, it is possible to explain why I’m an observer who doesn’t see aliens. We just don’t know how to do that yet. The Great Filter is one possible explanation behind the “they aren’t there” answer, and this new information adjusts what we think the filters that would make up the Great Filter might be.
Another way to think about this: suppose we discover that actually science proves life should only arise on 1 in a googol planets. That introduces interesting anthropic considerations about how we ended up as observers on that 1 planet (can’t observe if you don’t exist, yadda yadda). But what I care about here is instead, what scientific discovery proved the odds should be so low? What exactly is the Great Filter that made us so rare?
Dangit I can’t cease to exist, I have stuff to do this weekend.
But more seriously, I don’t see the point you’re making? I don’t have a particular objection to your discussion of anthropic arguments, but also I don’t understand how it relates to the “what part of evolution/planetary science/sociology/etc. is the Great Filter” scientific question.