Upvoted for clear communication.
I’m sort of puzzled, though, as to how I could have possibly interpreted your statements as applying to anything but the post and the comments on it; I saw no context clues suggesting that you meant “in everyday conversation.” Did I miss these?
That said, if one of us had added just three or four words of proviso earlier, limiting our generalizations explicitly, we could have figured the disconnect out more quickly. I could have said that my generalizations apply best to essays and edited posts. You could have said that your generalizations apply best to situations where the added cost of qualifiers carries a higher burden.
Because we did not explicitly qualify our generalizations, but instead relied on context, we fell prey to a fake disagreement. However, any vindication I feel at seeing my point supported is nullified by the realization that I, personally, failed to apply the communication strategy that I was promoting.
Oops.
Wait, wait, I think I see something here. I think I see why we are incapable of agreeing.
This seems more like a description of how S-O S’s fail.
Can you offer any reason why I should treat S-O S’s as a useful or realistic representational scheme if my goal is to draw accurate conclusions about actual, existing people?
Let me try to make my confusion clearer:
If I come upon a Halloween basket containing fifty peanut butter cups without razorblades, and ten peanut butter cups with razorblades, what is the second-order simulacrum I use to represent the contents of that basket? “A basket of delicious and safe peanut butter cups?”
Is this even a legitimate question, or am I still not grasping the concept?