“Sorry if it offends you, I just don’t think in general that you should apply this stuff to society. Like… no.”
Let me translate: “You should do what I say because I said so.” This is an attempt to overpower you and is quite common. Anyone who insists that you accept their belief without logical justification is simply demanding that you do what they say because they say so. My response, to people who can be reasoned with, is often just to point this out and point out that it is extremely offensive. If they cannot be reasoned with then you just have to play the political game humans have been playing for ages.
Do you have any suggestions on how to limit this? I find meetings often meander from someone’s pet issue to trivial / irrelevant details while the important broader topic withers and dies despite the meeting running 2-3x longer than planned.
In meetings where I have some control, I try to keep people on topic, but it’s quite hard. In meetings where I’m the ‘worker bee’ it’s often hopeless (don’t want to rub the boss the wrong way).