The discussion reminds of that story On being a bat (iirc) in Hofstadter/Dennets highly recommended The Mind’s I, on the impossibility of understanding at all what it is like to be something so different from us.
Thomas Nagel’s “What is it like to be a bat?” [PDF], indeed included in The Mind’s I.
Graphviz is the LaTeX of graph-drawing tools. You’ll get professional-looking output immediately, but the customization options aren’t as discoverable as they would be in a visual editor.
If you plan on making lots of graphs or want them to look very pretty, I’d recommend it. If you’re just looking for a quick way to draw a graph or two explaining TDT vs. CDT it may not be worth the time relative to a generic (vector) drawing program.
(The Python bindings might make things marginally easier if you know Python and don’t want to learn more syntax.)