A question I have is how to evaluate the morality of the two options:
A) Make it so that an animal is born, then later cause it considerable suffering
B) Change the conditions so that the animal never exists
If everyone went vegetarian, the animal population would likely be greatly diminished and it isn’t obvious to me that I’d choose option B over option A if I were on the menu. Are there some standard objections to the idea that option A is better than option B?
One quick objection might be that it proves too much. If John Beatmykids told me he wouldn’t have kids unless he was permitted to beat them, I wouldn’t give him a pass to beat any future children. Another objection might be that there’s always a choice C, but here I don’t see another option as realistic.
Some variation of “What is the other person’s actual objective?” Or “Why did they do that?” or “What are they actually asking me?”
I started this habit in chess where it’s always useful to ask ‘why did my opponent make their last move?’ (and then see if there are answers past the obvious one). But I’ve also found it useful in other areas. Several times at work I’ve gone through iterations of something with someone because I answered exactly what they said instead of what they actually wanted. I now try to stop and ask them what their actual purpose is and it often saves me a bit of work.