And- I get a great deal from the theories of Carl Rogers, who postulated an Organismic Self, or a “Me” which is my whole organism, and a “Self-concept”, which is those bits of me which I allow myself to be conscious of, excluding bits which I am too ashamed of to be conscious of them, and including bits which are not really me, but which I pretend are me because of my concept of “good”. I also see myself as an evolved being, and so draw from this that I fit into that habitat which I find myself: if an ancestor did not fit enough, he would not have become my ancestor.
If I feel divided against myself, opposing my own conscious goals, this may be because there is a shadow-part of the organismic self, a part which I deny because it is too uncomfortable. So I try to draw these parts out of the shadow, because they are Good. I also try to see what is self-concept, but not really me.
Perhaps some will manage to keep their self-concepts very close to their organismic selves, and such struggles are of little interest. For me, others’ struggles are of great interest. Thank you for sharing.
And- I get a great deal from the theories of Carl Rogers, who postulated an Organismic Self, or a “Me” which is my whole organism, and a “Self-concept”, which is those bits of me which I allow myself to be conscious of, excluding bits which I am too ashamed of to be conscious of them, and including bits which are not really me, but which I pretend are me because of my concept of “good”. I also see myself as an evolved being, and so draw from this that I fit into that habitat which I find myself: if an ancestor did not fit enough, he would not have become my ancestor.
If I feel divided against myself, opposing my own conscious goals, this may be because there is a shadow-part of the organismic self, a part which I deny because it is too uncomfortable. So I try to draw these parts out of the shadow, because they are Good. I also try to see what is self-concept, but not really me.
Perhaps some will manage to keep their self-concepts very close to their organismic selves, and such struggles are of little interest. For me, others’ struggles are of great interest. Thank you for sharing.