I did not find reading websites particularly helpful in this regard. I have always been very “book smart” and I love to theorize about things, but I am coming to realize that implicit experiential knowledge is key for success in this world. It’s easy to know what high/low status signals are, but it’s much harder to become aware of them and know what to do to correct them. Yet it only took a couple hours of in-person training at the seminar to fix the majority of the bad signals.
Despite that nitpick I definitely agree with your point. I needed to construct a mental model of social interaction, and now I can ruthlessly optimize over that as well. I am greatly looking forward to it.
I did not find reading websites particularly helpful in this regard. I have always been very “book smart” and I love to theorize about things, but I am coming to realize that implicit experiential knowledge is key for success in this world. It’s easy to know what high/low status signals are, but it’s much harder to become aware of them and know what to do to correct them. Yet it only took a couple hours of in-person training at the seminar to fix the majority of the bad signals.
Despite that nitpick I definitely agree with your point. I needed to construct a mental model of social interaction, and now I can ruthlessly optimize over that as well. I am greatly looking forward to it.