I don’t think it’s the most critical step for most people. Actually, going through the mating dance in a way that leads to feelings seems to me often more critical.
I think we might be valuing the importance of each step based on personal experience. But maybe they’re both equally important. ex. What’s more important for a cake, buying the ingredients or cooking it?
What is your point?
Of course you will have to go through the rest of process, but you just solved the most critical step.
I don’t think it’s the most critical step for most people. Actually, going through the mating dance in a way that leads to feelings seems to me often more critical.
I think we might be valuing the importance of each step based on personal experience. But maybe they’re both equally important. ex. What’s more important for a cake, buying the ingredients or cooking it?
How can one improve the “mating dance” ?
The fact that arranged marriages out of pretty small polls of candidates can produce good marriages suggests that the match is not that central.
There’s a lot that has been written on dating.