“The other major hack going on in all of those routines is people paying attention to you. Being paid attention to is an extremely powerful behavior modifier, and it’s a major recruitment tool used by cults of all kinds.”
I remember when I was 18 and on the road alone on a spiritual quest and I got heavily recruited by a cult. The primary techniques seemed to be giving me such attention and affirmation for every word that came out of my mouth. My reaction was: Well, this is awkward. These people are being very nice but they’re not interesting. Given their techniques I had difficulty politely disentangling myself from their presence. After about 12 hours I heard Reverend Moon mentioned, at which point I said “Oh, you’re Moonies!”. A few hours later I politely bid them goodbye and walked away. They followed me around for a while to no avail.
I wasn’t in danger. Their perspective seemed narrow and boring to me.
I remember when I was 18 and on the road alone on a spiritual quest and I got heavily recruited by a cult. The primary techniques seemed to be giving me such attention and affirmation for every word that came out of my mouth. My reaction was: Well, this is awkward. These people are being very nice but they’re not interesting. Given their techniques I had difficulty politely disentangling myself from their presence. After about 12 hours I heard Reverend Moon mentioned, at which point I said “Oh, you’re Moonies!”. A few hours later I politely bid them goodbye and walked away. They followed me around for a while to no avail.
I wasn’t in danger. Their perspective seemed narrow and boring to me.