Not telling is mostly about wanting to avoid the other party getting angry.
I wouldn’t mind disclosing the reasons to someone if I was given some confidence they wouldn’t get angry at me.
Thus most of the time one ends up using polite safe generic to turn away people.
Not telling is mostly about wanting to avoid the other party getting angry.
I wouldn’t mind disclosing the reasons to someone if I was given some confidence they wouldn’t get angry at me.
Thus most of the time one ends up using polite safe generic to turn away people.