The main reason I settled on this strategy is the timing of my rejections. Almost all of my rejections come shortly after I make a signal of interest. It could be that women coincidentally smell my terrible BO when I mention I want a long-term patner, but I doubt it. Is that a 99⁄1 likelihood ratio proof?
No, but I have to start figuring this out somewhere.
“It could be that women coincidentally smell my terrible BO when I mention I want a long-term patner, but I doubt it.”
It could also be that your signal of interest is the catalyst for them deciding to act on their pre-existing feelings of doubt. Perhaps they were already harbouring doubts but didn’t voice them until you, essentially, forced them to decide.
on the first date I do lots of flattery, both verbal and tonal
On the second date I may say “I like you” or mention that I am seeking a long term partner if asked
My body language tends to be more boyfriend
I know I want to date someone by the second date. Most women take much longer. I’m uninhibited so my intentions usually show
I overshare about myself (1st and 2nd dates)
I prefer to send longer/higher effort texts than most guys
sometimes I intentionally or unintentionally hide my attraction signals (verbal and body language). My last three relationships all started with that behavior.
I mention qualities I prefer in a long term partner on the first or second date (so stupid in retrospect)
I ask women what they want in a long term partner on the first or second date
The main reason I settled on this strategy is the timing of my rejections. Almost all of my rejections come shortly after I make a signal of interest. It could be that women coincidentally smell my terrible BO when I mention I want a long-term patner, but I doubt it. Is that a 99⁄1 likelihood ratio proof?
No, but I have to start figuring this out somewhere.
“It could be that women coincidentally smell my terrible BO when I mention I want a long-term patner, but I doubt it.”
It could also be that your signal of interest is the catalyst for them deciding to act on their pre-existing feelings of doubt. Perhaps they were already harbouring doubts but didn’t voice them until you, essentially, forced them to decide.
What kind of indicators of interest are you making, how are you making them, and when are you making them?
Good question.
on the first date I do lots of flattery, both verbal and tonal
On the second date I may say “I like you” or mention that I am seeking a long term partner if asked
My body language tends to be more boyfriend
I know I want to date someone by the second date. Most women take much longer. I’m uninhibited so my intentions usually show
I overshare about myself (1st and 2nd dates)
I prefer to send longer/higher effort texts than most guys
sometimes I intentionally or unintentionally hide my attraction signals (verbal and body language). My last three relationships all started with that behavior.
I mention qualities I prefer in a long term partner on the first or second date (so stupid in retrospect)
I ask women what they want in a long term partner on the first or second date