For people who are embedded in a social structure, it can be costly to step outside of it. Many people will justifiably choose monogamy simply because, given the equilibrium we’re in, it is the best move for them...even IF they would prefer a world of polyamory or some other alternative.
To go off topic for a moment, the same could also be said of religious belief. I know the people here feel a special allegiance to the truth, and that’s wonderful, but if we lived in 12th century europe it might not be worth rejecting religion even if we saw through it. For that matter, people in the modern day who are particularly entrenched in a religious community...may wisely choose not to even think about the possibility that they’re wrong. Wise because, taking this equilibrium behavior as given—accepting that no one else in the community will seriously consider the possibility of being wrong—means that deviating will be scorned by all the people whose opinion the deviator cares about.
I applaud people who are devoted to truthseeking, but I do not condemn the rationally ignorant, or for that matter the people who choose to be monogamous simply because that’s what society expects of them, rather than because it’s “what they really want” or “who they really are.”
Wouldn’t there be some advantages in 12th century Europe to being a secret atheist (especially a rationalist, if that were somehow possible), and simply not speaking about it to anyone? It would eliminate the chance of going on crusades or the psycological fear of excommunication (even if excommunication would be a horrible situation anyway) if a noble, and a lot of superstitions if a commoner.
There are advantages to that, but there are disadvantages too. You’d have to constantly maintain a lie to everyone you knew, and there are psychological consequences to that. Additionally, it’s a lot easier to believe that there is no afterlife when cryonics is possible. If you’re in 12th century Europe, you will cease to exist after about 30 years, and that could be very painful to realize.
For people who are embedded in a social structure, it can be costly to step outside of it. Many people will justifiably choose monogamy simply because, given the equilibrium we’re in, it is the best move for them...even IF they would prefer a world of polyamory or some other alternative.
To go off topic for a moment, the same could also be said of religious belief. I know the people here feel a special allegiance to the truth, and that’s wonderful, but if we lived in 12th century europe it might not be worth rejecting religion even if we saw through it. For that matter, people in the modern day who are particularly entrenched in a religious community...may wisely choose not to even think about the possibility that they’re wrong. Wise because, taking this equilibrium behavior as given—accepting that no one else in the community will seriously consider the possibility of being wrong—means that deviating will be scorned by all the people whose opinion the deviator cares about.
I applaud people who are devoted to truthseeking, but I do not condemn the rationally ignorant, or for that matter the people who choose to be monogamous simply because that’s what society expects of them, rather than because it’s “what they really want” or “who they really are.”
Wouldn’t there be some advantages in 12th century Europe to being a secret atheist (especially a rationalist, if that were somehow possible), and simply not speaking about it to anyone? It would eliminate the chance of going on crusades or the psycological fear of excommunication (even if excommunication would be a horrible situation anyway) if a noble, and a lot of superstitions if a commoner.
There are advantages to that, but there are disadvantages too. You’d have to constantly maintain a lie to everyone you knew, and there are psychological consequences to that. Additionally, it’s a lot easier to believe that there is no afterlife when cryonics is possible. If you’re in 12th century Europe, you will cease to exist after about 30 years, and that could be very painful to realize.