I discovered this issue for myself by reading a similar article, and going through the same process, but with my third thought being “does that guy [the Prime Minister in this story] really believe this thing that I believe [in this case, pro-choice]?” I think he’s bad because he broke the rules, then I forgive him because he’s on my side, then for one reason on another I start to wonder if he really is on my side...and notice that I’m trying to decide whether to blame him for breaking the rules or not. (I think this is because I myself use irony a lot, so often when I hear a statement that is in some way ambiguous or silly, I reflexively ask myself if it is sincere or sarcasm, even in a situation where irony would be unacceptable/unthinkable, as is the case with a public statement)
I’m not sure how many times this happened to me before I noticed, but nowadays I just think “broke the rules, −10 points even though I like this guy”, and then, “oh and he agrees with me, gotta increase his score for that”.
I discovered this issue for myself by reading a similar article, and going through the same process, but with my third thought being “does that guy [the Prime Minister in this story] really believe this thing that I believe [in this case, pro-choice]?” I think he’s bad because he broke the rules, then I forgive him because he’s on my side, then for one reason on another I start to wonder if he really is on my side...and notice that I’m trying to decide whether to blame him for breaking the rules or not. (I think this is because I myself use irony a lot, so often when I hear a statement that is in some way ambiguous or silly, I reflexively ask myself if it is sincere or sarcasm, even in a situation where irony would be unacceptable/unthinkable, as is the case with a public statement)
I’m not sure how many times this happened to me before I noticed, but nowadays I just think “broke the rules, −10 points even though I like this guy”, and then, “oh and he agrees with me, gotta increase his score for that”.