Being in a situation somewhat similar to yours, I’ve been worrying that my lowered expectations about others’ level of agency (with elevated expectations as to what constitutes a “good” level of agency) has an influence on those I interact with: if I assume that people are somewhat influenced by what others expect of them, I must conclude that I should behave (as far as they can see) as if I believed them to be as capable of agency as myself, so that their actual level of agency will improve. This would would work on me, for instance I’d be more generally prone to take initiative if I saw trust in my peers’ eyes.
Being in a situation somewhat similar to yours, I’ve been worrying that my lowered expectations about others’ level of agency (with elevated expectations as to what constitutes a “good” level of agency) has an influence on those I interact with: if I assume that people are somewhat influenced by what others expect of them, I must conclude that I should behave (as far as they can see) as if I believed them to be as capable of agency as myself, so that their actual level of agency will improve. This would would work on me, for instance I’d be more generally prone to take initiative if I saw trust in my peers’ eyes.