I basically agree with you, but I think situation B to quite that extent is rare. And of course identifying similarity to that is pretty open to bias if you just don’t like that movement.
Concrete example—I used to use the Hebrew name of God in theological conversations, as this was normal at my college. I noticed a Jewish classmate of mine was wincing. I discussed it with him, he found it uncomfortable, I stopped doing it. Didn’t cost me anything, happy to do it.
Also, I think some of this is bleeding over from ‘I am not willing to inconvenience myself’ to actively enjoying making a point (possibly in some vague sense that it will help them reform, though not sure if that’s evidenced). I can get that instinct, and the habit of “punishing” people who push things can make sense in game theory terms. But I think the idea of not feeling duty-bound is different to getting to the position where some commenters might turn UP the music.
Concrete example—I used to use the Hebrew name of God in theological conversations, as this was normal at my college. I noticed a Jewish classmate of mine was wincing. I discussed it with him, he found it uncomfortable, I stopped doing it. Didn’t cost me anything, happy to do it.
The difference is that the Jews have been using the same set of demands for a long time, so they’re unlikely to present new demands once you accede to their current ones.
I basically agree with you, but I think situation B to quite that extent is rare. And of course identifying similarity to that is pretty open to bias if you just don’t like that movement.
Concrete example—I used to use the Hebrew name of God in theological conversations, as this was normal at my college. I noticed a Jewish classmate of mine was wincing. I discussed it with him, he found it uncomfortable, I stopped doing it. Didn’t cost me anything, happy to do it.
Also, I think some of this is bleeding over from ‘I am not willing to inconvenience myself’ to actively enjoying making a point (possibly in some vague sense that it will help them reform, though not sure if that’s evidenced). I can get that instinct, and the habit of “punishing” people who push things can make sense in game theory terms. But I think the idea of not feeling duty-bound is different to getting to the position where some commenters might turn UP the music.
The difference is that the Jews have been using the same set of demands for a long time, so they’re unlikely to present new demands once you accede to their current ones.