I think I may have been using the word “hardwired” a bit flippantly. I didn’t mean something that is literally ROM, but something more like a deeply-worn river bed. I think it is possible to overcome many of our (collective and individual) irrational emotional responses, but it’s not a trivial task. Steven’s comment is right on the mark.
As to evidence, I don’t have any that would distinguish between it being a result of evolution, and, say, something that many of our parents condition into us (which, of course, presumes a pre-existing response to negative parental feedback). I do have evidence that these sorts of things are not entirely—or even mostly—under conscious control.
I think the dichotomy you create of “hardwired” vs. “malleable” is a little bit too simplistic: there is a whole spectrum of brain-habits which run the gamut between them. “The Agile Gene” (popular science...) discusses this issue fairly extensively.
I think I may have been using the word “hardwired” a bit flippantly. I didn’t mean something that is literally ROM, but something more like a deeply-worn river bed. I think it is possible to overcome many of our (collective and individual) irrational emotional responses, but it’s not a trivial task. Steven’s comment is right on the mark.
As to evidence, I don’t have any that would distinguish between it being a result of evolution, and, say, something that many of our parents condition into us (which, of course, presumes a pre-existing response to negative parental feedback). I do have evidence that these sorts of things are not entirely—or even mostly—under conscious control.
I think the dichotomy you create of “hardwired” vs. “malleable” is a little bit too simplistic: there is a whole spectrum of brain-habits which run the gamut between them. “The Agile Gene” (popular science...) discusses this issue fairly extensively.