the therapeutic idea of systematically replacing the concept “should” with less normative framings
Interesting. I independently came up with this concept, downstream of thinking about moral cognition and parts work. Could you point me to any past literature that talks about this coherently enough that you would point people to it to understand this concept?
Interesting. I independently came up with this concept, downstream of thinking about moral cognition and parts work. Could you point me to any past literature that talks about this coherently enough that you would point people to it to understand this concept?
I know that Nate has written about this:
“Should” considered harmful
Not because you “should”
Your “shoulds” are not a duty
As far as I recall, reading these posts didn’t help me.