for people who are not very good at navigating social conventions, it is often easier to learn to be visibly weird than to learn to adapt to the social conventions.
are you basing this on intuition or personal experience or something else? I guess we should avoid basing it on observations of people who did succeed in that way. People who try and succeed in adapting to social conventions are likely much less noticeable/salient than people who succeed at being visibly weird.
are you basing this on intuition or personal experience or something else? I guess we should avoid basing it on observations of people who did succeed in that way. People who try and succeed in adapting to social conventions are likely much less noticeable/salient than people who succeed at being visibly weird.