Self Help? Maybe some. I think that most of the most popular self-help can seem DEEPLY cynical to someone of nerdy disposition like myself. The essential message of “how to win friends and influence people” is “don’t try to reason with people, instead flatter them and otherwise manipulate their emotions to create immediate pleasure that they will associate with you”. OTOH, the message is also that if you do this you can have SUCCESS!!!, so whether it’s cynical or idealistic depends on how much you value SUCCESS!!!. When I first read it I didn’t have Something To Protect (TM), which works like soap for dissolving otherwise analyticophobic cynicism into the nerdy soul. Robert Green is famous for being even more cynical than Carnegie. The Secret, more recently successful, tells people that the world is arbitrary, both simple and inscrutable. IIIck! Worse than saying “Look, Cthulhu is standing over there and is about to eat you”. I’d consider suicide if it’s worldview was true and if I could even entertain the impossible possibility. Many members of the PUA community sell books that are cynical about women being people but optimistic about sex being widely available. I’d call that VERY cynical on net.
Self Help? Maybe some. I think that most of the most popular self-help can seem DEEPLY cynical to someone of nerdy disposition like myself. The essential message of “how to win friends and influence people” is “don’t try to reason with people, instead flatter them and otherwise manipulate their emotions to create immediate pleasure that they will associate with you”. OTOH, the message is also that if you do this you can have SUCCESS!!!, so whether it’s cynical or idealistic depends on how much you value SUCCESS!!!. When I first read it I didn’t have Something To Protect (TM), which works like soap for dissolving otherwise analyticophobic cynicism into the nerdy soul. Robert Green is famous for being even more cynical than Carnegie. The Secret, more recently successful, tells people that the world is arbitrary, both simple and inscrutable. IIIck! Worse than saying “Look, Cthulhu is standing over there and is about to eat you”. I’d consider suicide if it’s worldview was true and if I could even entertain the impossible possibility. Many members of the PUA community sell books that are cynical about women being people but optimistic about sex being widely available. I’d call that VERY cynical on net.