As I said, having high status = people feel the same way they would feel if they owed you something in real life/you were giving them things in real life.
I don’t think this is quite right. In my experience, the sensation that someone is higher status than me induces a desperate desire to be validated by them, abstractly. It’s not the same as ‘gratitude’ or anything like that; it’s the desire to associate with them in order to acquire a specific pleasurable sensation—one of group membership, acceptance, and worth.
I don’t think this is quite right. In my experience, the sensation that someone is higher status than me induces a desperate desire to be validated by them, abstractly. It’s not the same as ‘gratitude’ or anything like that; it’s the desire to associate with them in order to acquire a specific pleasurable sensation—one of group membership, acceptance, and worth.