I think that’s actually the common model that sex is something women have and men want. So, which of the two simply depends on whether you’re inclined to grant it or not, and on the side you view it from. This may be an unrelated phenomenon to dom/sub (or, alternately, the source of a dom/sub effect.)
That’s an interesting “model”, but it doesn’t seem to be making any predictions here—it fits whether Wilde is right or wrong, so it’s probably irrelevant.
I think that’s actually the common model that sex is something women have and men want. So, which of the two simply depends on whether you’re inclined to grant it or not, and on the side you view it from. This may be an unrelated phenomenon to dom/sub (or, alternately, the source of a dom/sub effect.)
That’s an interesting “model”, but it doesn’t seem to be making any predictions here—it fits whether Wilde is right or wrong, so it’s probably irrelevant.