If people are scared that they’re doing something potentially life-ruining
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I’d expect the number of people who joined doomsday cults and made jokes like Alicorn’s to be approximately zero.
I would be very surprised if this was true. My experience mirrors what Jiro said—people tend to joke about things that scare them. Of course, some would clam up (keep in mind that a clammed up individual may have joked about it before and the joke was not well received, or may be better able to evaluate the lack of humour in such jokes)
Okay, they joke about it. Just not the kind of joke that draws attention to the thing they’re worried about; it’d be too close to home, like making a dead baby joke at a funeral. Jokes minimizing or exaggerating the situation—a type of deflection—are more likely; Kool-Aid jokes wouldn’t be out of the question, for example.
Well, presumably one who’s joining a doomsday cult is most worried about the doomsday (and would be relieved if it was just a bullshit doomsday cult). So wouldn’t that be a case of jokes minimizing the situation as it exists in the speaker’s mind? The reason that NORAD joke of yours is funny to either of us, is that we both believe it can actually cause an extreme catastrophe, which is uncomfortable for us. Why wouldn’t a similar joke referencing a false doomsday not be funny to one who believes in said false belief as strongly as we believe in nuclear weapons?
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I would be very surprised if this was true. My experience mirrors what Jiro said—people tend to joke about things that scare them. Of course, some would clam up (keep in mind that a clammed up individual may have joked about it before and the joke was not well received, or may be better able to evaluate the lack of humour in such jokes)
Okay, they joke about it. Just not the kind of joke that draws attention to the thing they’re worried about; it’d be too close to home, like making a dead baby joke at a funeral. Jokes minimizing or exaggerating the situation—a type of deflection—are more likely; Kool-Aid jokes wouldn’t be out of the question, for example.
Why the ellipsis?
Well, presumably one who’s joining a doomsday cult is most worried about the doomsday (and would be relieved if it was just a bullshit doomsday cult). So wouldn’t that be a case of jokes minimizing the situation as it exists in the speaker’s mind? The reason that NORAD joke of yours is funny to either of us, is that we both believe it can actually cause an extreme catastrophe, which is uncomfortable for us. Why wouldn’t a similar joke referencing a false doomsday not be funny to one who believes in said false belief as strongly as we believe in nuclear weapons?
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