I’m seconding the request for next year to include a Monogamish option. I’m in a basically monogamous relationship, but we both sometimes sleep with friends.
Because I think it’s one of the three major relationship models. Pure Monogamy is traditional, and Polyamory is the reaction against it, but Monogamish is how a lot of relationships actually work (while operating under the cloak of monogamy). It’s like a worldwide religion survey allowing only “Christian” and “Muslim”, and lumping Hinduism under “Other”. There’s another major option here that should be broken out.
Last year there were 2% “other” answers, versus 13% “polyamorous” and 30% “uncertain/no preference” ones. This suggests there is no need to break down “other” any further, unless people in relationship models like yours pick “uncertain” rather than “other” and would switch if “monogamish” was an option.
Personally I picked “monogamous” because it’s the closest to how my relationship actually works. Aside from sex with other people, we are a monogamous couple.
I’m seconding the request for next year to include a Monogamish option. I’m in a basically monogamous relationship, but we both sometimes sleep with friends.
(also I took the survey)
Why do you want this to be a separate option, rather than “other”?
Because I think it’s one of the three major relationship models. Pure Monogamy is traditional, and Polyamory is the reaction against it, but Monogamish is how a lot of relationships actually work (while operating under the cloak of monogamy). It’s like a worldwide religion survey allowing only “Christian” and “Muslim”, and lumping Hinduism under “Other”. There’s another major option here that should be broken out.
Last year there were 2% “other” answers, versus 13% “polyamorous” and 30% “uncertain/no preference” ones. This suggests there is no need to break down “other” any further, unless people in relationship models like yours pick “uncertain” rather than “other” and would switch if “monogamish” was an option.
Personally I picked “monogamous” because it’s the closest to how my relationship actually works. Aside from sex with other people, we are a monogamous couple.
LOL.
Imagine that sentence outside of the LW context :-)