Here’s where I’ve most noticed folks in the 40s and 50s attending: ACX meetups; Winter Solstice
This sounds to me like: “don’t visit random rationalist meetups, focus on the exceptional ones”, because the busy people will probably follow the same strategy.
(I assume that by “ACX meetups” you meant the yearly “ACX Everywhere” meetups.)
And the other part could probably be achieved by asking every rationalist over 40 what other social places they are visiting, and checking those.
This sounds to me like: “don’t visit random rationalist meetups, focus on the exceptional ones”, because the busy people will probably follow the same strategy.
(I assume that by “ACX meetups” you meant the yearly “ACX Everywhere” meetups.)
And the other part could probably be achieved by asking every rationalist over 40 what other social places they are visiting, and checking those.