I’ve never been in therapy, but I find it almost impossible to map certain psychological concepts and questions to coherent internal things. It’s like when someone describes political liberalism as “the belief that government should be bigger”: It’s not total nonsense, but it doesn’t connect with solid, and it’s probably a sign of confusion if you feel that you can give a categorical answer.
Or another way: Trying to apply these concepts to myself feels like asking if some Canadian guy more culturally Japanese or Spanish (extroversion/introversion, high/low self-esteem, inner/outer locus of control, masculine/feminine). I can see that certain percentage of the world population is really clearly Japanese or Spanish, but what’s the meaning of saying this Canadian guy is more Japanese, or even that he’s more Japanese in contexts X, Y, and Z, and more Spanish in environments P, Q, and R?
(Not the OP, but musing on part of this)
I’ve never been in therapy, but I find it almost impossible to map certain psychological concepts and questions to coherent internal things. It’s like when someone describes political liberalism as “the belief that government should be bigger”: It’s not total nonsense, but it doesn’t connect with solid, and it’s probably a sign of confusion if you feel that you can give a categorical answer.
Or another way: Trying to apply these concepts to myself feels like asking if some Canadian guy more culturally Japanese or Spanish (extroversion/introversion, high/low self-esteem, inner/outer locus of control, masculine/feminine). I can see that certain percentage of the world population is really clearly Japanese or Spanish, but what’s the meaning of saying this Canadian guy is more Japanese, or even that he’s more Japanese in contexts X, Y, and Z, and more Spanish in environments P, Q, and R?