Strongly agree. Rationalist culture is instrumentally irrational here. It’s very well known how important self-belief & a growth mindset is for success, and rationalists obsession with natural intelligence quite bad imo, to the point where I want to limit my interaction with the community so I don’t pick up bad patterns.
I do wonder if you’re strawmanning the advice a little, in my friend circles dropping out is seen as reasonable, though this could just be because a lot of my high-school friends already have some legible accomplishments and skills.
Strongly agree. Rationalist culture is instrumentally irrational here. It’s very well known how important self-belief & a growth mindset is for success, and rationalists obsession with natural intelligence quite bad imo, to the point where I want to limit my interaction with the community so I don’t pick up bad patterns.
I do wonder if you’re strawmanning the advice a little, in my friend circles dropping out is seen as reasonable, though this could just be because a lot of my high-school friends already have some legible accomplishments and skills.