I think I would have agreed that answering honestly is a social gaffe a few years ago, and in my even younger years I found it embarrassing to ask such things when we both knew I wasn’t trying to learn the answer, but now I feel like it’s very natural to elaborate a bit, and it usually doesn’t feel like an error. e.g. ‘Alright—somewhat regretting signing up for this thing, but it’s reminding me that I’m interested in the topic’ or ‘eh, seen better days, but making crepes—want one?’ I wonder if I’ve become oblivious in my old age, or socially chill, or the context has changed. It could be partly that this depends on how well the conversationalists know each other, and it has been a slow year and a half for seeing people I don’t live with.
I think I would have agreed that answering honestly is a social gaffe a few years ago, and in my even younger years I found it embarrassing to ask such things when we both knew I wasn’t trying to learn the answer, but now I feel like it’s very natural to elaborate a bit, and it usually doesn’t feel like an error. e.g. ‘Alright—somewhat regretting signing up for this thing, but it’s reminding me that I’m interested in the topic’ or ‘eh, seen better days, but making crepes—want one?’ I wonder if I’ve become oblivious in my old age, or socially chill, or the context has changed. It could be partly that this depends on how well the conversationalists know each other, and it has been a slow year and a half for seeing people I don’t live with.