My speculation: people in “our” personspace cluster tend to be pattern mismatchers/polarity responders (NLP lingo, there are probably some googleable descriptions). Whereas “normals” get good emotions from rapport, “we” are the opposite. A lot of nerd awkwardness probably comes from the failure to understand and utilize rapport.
My speculation: people in “our” personspace cluster tend to be pattern mismatchers/polarity responders (NLP lingo, there are probably some googleable descriptions). Whereas “normals” get good emotions from rapport, “we” are the opposite. A lot of nerd awkwardness probably comes from the failure to understand and utilize rapport.