I find your reaction mystifying. Are you seriously downvoting me because I’m being truthful about why I don’t want to continue the discussion? You think it would be nicer to just ghost the person you’re talking to?
To some extent, yeah. If someone ghosts me in a discussion like this I think “ah yes, clearly I have bested them and they have no reply to make” and I feel good about myself. If they say I’m not worth talking to I feel bad about myself.
Of course it may not be a good community norm to do what’s nicer.
I note that your second sentence was kind of a parting blow, saying you’re not going to argue and then making one final argument.
I note that your second sentence was kind of a parting blow, saying you’re not going to argue and then making one final argument.
My argument is not about the object-level, it’s just an explanation of why I think it’s not worth continuing the discussion. I feel I should provide some explanation of why I want to cut the discussion off here, and for me what matters is whether we’re making claims that in principle could be falsified or not, and whether those claims actually relate to the question asked in the post.
For instance, when I give power cuts in the US as an analogy for why food insecurity doesn’t necessarily mean we’re bottlenecked by food supply in growing population, and I get a response that
“You also need to consider the question of how many people die unnecessarily in a very wealthy country because of an unreliable power supply. People were freezing death in Texas a few years ago.”
I mentally check out of the discussion because the counterparty is not even trying to understand my point and how it relates to the question raised by OP. I find conversations of this nature exhausting.
Fwiw, this is the tactic I often use in situations like this.
Yeah, I agree that tactic is better and I could have used it here. Thanks for pointing this out.
I find your reaction mystifying. Are you seriously downvoting me because I’m being truthful about why I don’t want to continue the discussion? You think it would be nicer to just ghost the person you’re talking to?
To some extent, yeah. If someone ghosts me in a discussion like this I think “ah yes, clearly I have bested them and they have no reply to make” and I feel good about myself. If they say I’m not worth talking to I feel bad about myself.
Of course it may not be a good community norm to do what’s nicer.
I note that your second sentence was kind of a parting blow, saying you’re not going to argue and then making one final argument.
Fwiw, this is the tactic I often use in situations like this.
My argument is not about the object-level, it’s just an explanation of why I think it’s not worth continuing the discussion. I feel I should provide some explanation of why I want to cut the discussion off here, and for me what matters is whether we’re making claims that in principle could be falsified or not, and whether those claims actually relate to the question asked in the post.
For instance, when I give power cuts in the US as an analogy for why food insecurity doesn’t necessarily mean we’re bottlenecked by food supply in growing population, and I get a response that
“You also need to consider the question of how many people die unnecessarily in a very wealthy country because of an unreliable power supply. People were freezing death in Texas a few years ago.”
I mentally check out of the discussion because the counterparty is not even trying to understand my point and how it relates to the question raised by OP. I find conversations of this nature exhausting.
Yeah, I agree that tactic is better and I could have used it here. Thanks for pointing this out.