My main take-away: There is a difference between conscious and subconscious. If you accuse sb with “You do not believe X” then you will get denial because he consciously believes it. The problem is that he subconsicously does not believe it and thus comes up with excuses in advance.
My main take-away: There is a difference between conscious and subconscious. If you accuse sb with “You do not believe X” then you will get denial because he consciously believes it. The problem is that he subconsicously does not believe it and thus comes up with excuses in advance.