I don’t think I have anything much to add in the way of specific tips.
I do think I’m a worse parent when I have less support (when I was home on maternity leave with a newborn and toddler, or when Jeff has been traveling and I’ve been alone with both kids for longer stretches than usual.) I agree that having childcare available, either paid or any kind, can help you be more patient and in-control.
I don’t think I have anything much to add in the way of specific tips.
I do think I’m a worse parent when I have less support (when I was home on maternity leave with a newborn and toddler, or when Jeff has been traveling and I’ve been alone with both kids for longer stretches than usual.) I agree that having childcare available, either paid or any kind, can help you be more patient and in-control.