Maybe it would help if you realized that most people most of the time are not interested in being explicitly rational.
I’m afraid that’s the main reason I’m getting angry at them, the utter lack of trying at being intelligent when they have to choose what to do or believe.
I never get angry at people for enjoying something stupid, or felt like they should treat each other are robots, or because they just follow (non evil) instructions, that I can understand.
I get angry only when it involves something where they really, really should try to get it right, and they don’t even have excuses like being under stress or pressure, and they still don’t try even just a little.
Though, now that I spell it out in more details, I realise (well, more remember, I already knew that) that people could focus on those other aspects you mention even when they shouldn’t.
This was helpful, I hadn’t noticed that I needed a more complex model of “being dumb” both to model people and to not get angry at them.
Unfortunately I had already selected what I’m exposed to as relations and media as much as I could a while ago, it wouldn’t be easy to make a second selection.
I’m afraid that’s the main reason I’m getting angry at them, the utter lack of trying at being intelligent when they have to choose what to do or believe.
I never get angry at people for enjoying something stupid, or felt like they should treat each other are robots, or because they just follow (non evil) instructions, that I can understand.
I get angry only when it involves something where they really, really should try to get it right, and they don’t even have excuses like being under stress or pressure, and they still don’t try even just a little.
Though, now that I spell it out in more details, I realise (well, more remember, I already knew that) that people could focus on those other aspects you mention even when they shouldn’t.
This was helpful, I hadn’t noticed that I needed a more complex model of “being dumb” both to model people and to not get angry at them.
Unfortunately I had already selected what I’m exposed to as relations and media as much as I could a while ago, it wouldn’t be easy to make a second selection.