Though unlikely to be actually helpful. Hardly anyone is analytical enough about their own emotional stuff to be able to use a flowchart on the topic. People here are probably pretty good candidates if there are any, but to use it on others sounds like big-time other-optimizing. I don’t mean to minimize that he was doing the best he could in extraordinarily difficult circumstances. But this probably isn’t a useful method for others to use.
Though unlikely to be actually helpful. Hardly anyone is analytical enough about their own emotional stuff to be able to use a flowchart on the topic. People here are probably pretty good candidates if there are any, but to use it on others sounds like big-time other-optimizing. I don’t mean to minimize that he was doing the best he could in extraordinarily difficult circumstances. But this probably isn’t a useful method for others to use.
It was honestly more for me than for her. Although at this point it’s hard to recall for whose sake it was.