People with BPD can be very addictive. The highs are so good—you wrack your brain trying to work out what you are doing wrong in the bad times. As Bordelines are often women, the gender politics of “it must be the man’s fault” add to the confusion.
The random nature the the Borderline person’s behavior is an almost perfect case of intermittent reinforcement.
The only solution is to extricate yourself as safely as possible. You can waste 1, 2, 10 or 30 years before you work this out.
It is very important to learn how to recognize two kinds of people / psychiatric disorders 1. Borderline Personality Disorder. 2. Psychopaths == Sociopaths.
People with BPD can be very addictive. The highs are so good—you wrack your brain trying to work out what you are doing wrong in the bad times. As Bordelines are often women, the gender politics of “it must be the man’s fault” add to the confusion.
The random nature the the Borderline person’s behavior is an almost perfect case of intermittent reinforcement.
The only solution is to extricate yourself as safely as possible. You can waste 1, 2, 10 or 30 years before you work this out.
It is very important to learn how to recognize two kinds of people / psychiatric disorders 1. Borderline Personality Disorder. 2. Psychopaths == Sociopaths.
Both can seriously damage your life.
Great insight! Almost suggests some sort of co-evolution...