At some point during our relationship, I switched from thinking there was something wrong with her, to thinking there was something wrong with me.
Which, as you found out, was also true (codependency, significant changes to your personality).
Unabashedly, yes. However, the healthy view would have been to see the issues in both of us simultaneously. That was the bigger issue.
Which, as you found out, was also true (codependency, significant changes to your personality).
Unabashedly, yes. However, the healthy view would have been to see the issues in both of us simultaneously. That was the bigger issue.