I’m also excited because, while I think I have most of the individual subskills, I haven’t personally been nearly as good at listening to wisdom as I’d like, and feel traction on trying harder.
Great post! I personally have a tendency to disregard wisdom because it feels “too easy”, that if I am given some advice and it works I think it was just luck or correlation, then I have to go and try “the other way (my way...)” and get a punch in the face from the universe and then be like “ohhh, so that why I should have stuck to the advice”.
Now when I think about it, it might also be because of intellectual arrogance, that I think I am smarter than the advice or the person that gives the advice.
But I have lately started to think a lot about way we think that successful outcomes require overreaching and burnout. Why do we have to fight so hard for everything and feel kind of guilty if it came to us without much effort? So maybe my failure to heed advices of wisdom is based in a need to achieve (overdo, modify, add, reduce, optimize etc.) rather than to just be.
Great post! I personally have a tendency to disregard wisdom because it feels “too easy”, that if I am given some advice and it works I think it was just luck or correlation, then I have to go and try “the other way (my way...)” and get a punch in the face from the universe and then be like “ohhh, so that why I should have stuck to the advice”.
Now when I think about it, it might also be because of intellectual arrogance, that I think I am smarter than the advice or the person that gives the advice.
But I have lately started to think a lot about way we think that successful outcomes require overreaching and burnout. Why do we have to fight so hard for everything and feel kind of guilty if it came to us without much effort? So maybe my failure to heed advices of wisdom is based in a need to achieve (overdo, modify, add, reduce, optimize etc.) rather than to just be.