If someone’s only option for dealing with a hostile telepath is self-deception, and then you come in and punish them for using it, thou art a dick.
Like, do you think it helps the abused mothers I named if you punish them somehow for not acknowledging their partners’ abuse? Does it even help the social circle around them?
If that’s their only option, and the hostility in your telepathy is antisocial, then yes. In some cases though, people do have other options and their self-deception is offensive, so hostile telepathy is pro-social.
For example, it would probably help those mothers if the men knew to anticipate punishment for not acknowledging their abuse of their partners. I bet at least one of those abusive husbands/boyfriends will give his side of the story that’s a bit more favorable than “I’m a bad guy, lol”, and that it will start to fall apart when pressed. In those cases, he’ll have to choose between admitting wrongdoing or playing dumb, and people often do their best to play really dumb. The self-deception there is a ploy to steal someone else’s second box, so fuck that guy.
I think the right response is to ignore the “self” part of the deception and treat it like any other deception. If it’s okay to lie to the Nazis about hiding Jews, then it’s okay to deceive yourself into believing it too. If we’re going to make it against the law to lie under oath, then making it legal so long as they lie to themselves too is only going to increase the antisocial deception.
If that’s their only option, and the hostility in your telepathy is antisocial, then yes. In some cases though, people do have other options and their self-deception is offensive, so hostile telepathy is pro-social.
For example, it would probably help those mothers if the men knew to anticipate punishment for not acknowledging their abuse of their partners. I bet at least one of those abusive husbands/boyfriends will give his side of the story that’s a bit more favorable than “I’m a bad guy, lol”, and that it will start to fall apart when pressed. In those cases, he’ll have to choose between admitting wrongdoing or playing dumb, and people often do their best to play really dumb. The self-deception there is a ploy to steal someone else’s second box, so fuck that guy.
I think the right response is to ignore the “self” part of the deception and treat it like any other deception. If it’s okay to lie to the Nazis about hiding Jews, then it’s okay to deceive yourself into believing it too. If we’re going to make it against the law to lie under oath, then making it legal so long as they lie to themselves too is only going to increase the antisocial deception.