From what anecdotal evidence I have, I’d say it doesn’t have much to do with argument. People who discard their religious beliefs do so after feeling emotional alienation. The antagonistic context of a “my side versus their side” debate isn’t amenable to that.
It’s one thing to be told some (presumably good) reason to reject the God hypothesis. It’s another to be honestly forced to reconcile it with events in your life story. Maybe they just don’t “feel it” anymore; God’s presence in their life isn’t what it used to be. Or maybe they’re forced to wrestle with the problem of evil, because something bad happened to a loved one. Maybe they have a spiritual-but-secular experience that makes it seem like the whole God idea is small-minded. Whatever the case, it takes a kind of emotional punch and not just a line of reasoning.
I jumped the theist fence after reading a book whose intellectual force was too great to be denied outright, and too difficult to refute point by point. I hate being wrong, and feeling stupid, and the arguments from the book stayed in my thoughts for a long time.
I didn’t formalize my thoughts until later, but if my atheism had a cause, it was THE CASE AGAINST GOD by George H Smith. I was very emotionally satisfied with my religion and it’s community beforehand.
From what anecdotal evidence I have, I’d say it doesn’t have much to do with argument. People who discard their religious beliefs do so after feeling emotional alienation. The antagonistic context of a “my side versus their side” debate isn’t amenable to that.
It’s one thing to be told some (presumably good) reason to reject the God hypothesis. It’s another to be honestly forced to reconcile it with events in your life story. Maybe they just don’t “feel it” anymore; God’s presence in their life isn’t what it used to be. Or maybe they’re forced to wrestle with the problem of evil, because something bad happened to a loved one. Maybe they have a spiritual-but-secular experience that makes it seem like the whole God idea is small-minded. Whatever the case, it takes a kind of emotional punch and not just a line of reasoning.
At least, that’s what I would think.
I jumped the theist fence after reading a book whose intellectual force was too great to be denied outright, and too difficult to refute point by point. I hate being wrong, and feeling stupid, and the arguments from the book stayed in my thoughts for a long time.
I didn’t formalize my thoughts until later, but if my atheism had a cause, it was THE CASE AGAINST GOD by George H Smith. I was very emotionally satisfied with my religion and it’s community beforehand.