About an hour ago I was thinking about how I need to work on my internal curiosity drive when it comes to other people, especially my roommate, since a lot of our conversations do end up feeling “disfluent and adversarial,” as you said. I think part of this definite can be chalked up to my (unfair) assumption that they don’t care about solving their problems, since I have a much lower level of comfort tolerance than they do, and a much stronger problem solving sense (and admittedly, fewer health issues in my way).
This post is an excellent place for me to get started!
About an hour ago I was thinking about how I need to work on my internal curiosity drive when it comes to other people, especially my roommate, since a lot of our conversations do end up feeling “disfluent and adversarial,” as you said. I think part of this definite can be chalked up to my (unfair) assumption that they don’t care about solving their problems, since I have a much lower level of comfort tolerance than they do, and a much stronger problem solving sense (and admittedly, fewer health issues in my way).
This post is an excellent place for me to get started!