When somebody is advocating taking an action, I think it can be productive to ask “Is there a good reason to do that?” rather than “Why should we do that?” because the former phrasing explicitly allows for the possibility that there is no good reason, which I think makes it both intellectually easier to realize that and socially easier to say it.
When somebody is advocating taking an action, I think it can be productive to ask “Is there a good reason to do that?” rather than “Why should we do that?” because the former phrasing explicitly allows for the possibility that there is no good reason, which I think makes it both intellectually easier to realize that and socially easier to say it.