Perhaps there could be a way to efficiently measure similarity between people, without relying on vibes. Something like, measure everyone on hundred different scales (have them answer a questionnaire, have an LLM analyze their free texts), then say something like “this and this person seem similar to me”, “this and that person do not seem similar”. The system would figure out which dimensions you care about, and then find in a database the people most similar (in the dimensions you care about) to the one you want.
Perhaps there could be a way to efficiently measure similarity between people, without relying on vibes. Something like, measure everyone on hundred different scales (have them answer a questionnaire, have an LLM analyze their free texts), then say something like “this and this person seem similar to me”, “this and that person do not seem similar”. The system would figure out which dimensions you care about, and then find in a database the people most similar (in the dimensions you care about) to the one you want.