So interestingly FWIW I also don’t feel like I have a super strong desire to act out kinks with other people. I did a bit with my ex, which felt good, but generally I feel pretty satisfied keeping my kinks private and just masturbating.
What you are saying in all your comments is perfectly consistent with how I’ve heard people say about their experience as asexuals. Have a read of asexual literature, maybe post on a few asexual forums with your experiences.
At the end of the day, I am 100% sure there are people with similar experiences to you who call themselves asexual and also who call themselves allosexual (not asexual).
At the end of the days, these labels are a personal thing, like deciding how to cut your hair. There’s no right or wrong way, just what makes you feel good.
So interestingly FWIW I also don’t feel like I have a super strong desire to act out kinks with other people. I did a bit with my ex, which felt good, but generally I feel pretty satisfied keeping my kinks private and just masturbating.
What you are saying in all your comments is perfectly consistent with how I’ve heard people say about their experience as asexuals. Have a read of asexual literature, maybe post on a few asexual forums with your experiences.
At the end of the day, I am 100% sure there are people with similar experiences to you who call themselves asexual and also who call themselves allosexual (not asexual).
At the end of the days, these labels are a personal thing, like deciding how to cut your hair. There’s no right or wrong way, just what makes you feel good.