I actually never was asked to say the Pledge in any US school I went to, and I’ve never even seen it said. I’m pretty sure this is limited to some parts of the country and is no longer as universal as it may have been once. If someone did go to one such school, they and their parents would have the option of simply not saying the Pledge, transferring to a different school (I doubt private or religious schools say it), or homeschooling/unschooling.
As another datapoint, the pledge was announced over the loudspeaker but students weren’t required to recite it at the first high school I went to (though we were required to stand respectfully and most everybody still did the salute even if they didn’t recite), and theoretically required for any student that didn’t have a religious exemption note at the second high school I went to.
I have a funny story about the second situation, too. I’d been one of the ones who didn’t say the pledge, before I moved, and decided that I wasn’t going to change that unless they made me. The result of this was that the other students in my homeroom class stopped saying it, too—first the ones nearest me, then the ones next to them, and so on across the room. I happened to have a desk in one corner of the room, and by the end of the year a handful of the students in the other corner of the room were the only ones still saying the pledge, and they generally shouted it, raucously or sarcastically depending on their mood. (Makes a pretty interesting complement to the Asch conformity test, come to think of it.)
I actually never was asked to say the Pledge in any US school I went to, and I’ve never even seen it said. I’m pretty sure this is limited to some parts of the country and is no longer as universal as it may have been once. If someone did go to one such school, they and their parents would have the option of simply not saying the Pledge, transferring to a different school (I doubt private or religious schools say it), or homeschooling/unschooling.
As another datapoint, the pledge was announced over the loudspeaker but students weren’t required to recite it at the first high school I went to (though we were required to stand respectfully and most everybody still did the salute even if they didn’t recite), and theoretically required for any student that didn’t have a religious exemption note at the second high school I went to.
I have a funny story about the second situation, too. I’d been one of the ones who didn’t say the pledge, before I moved, and decided that I wasn’t going to change that unless they made me. The result of this was that the other students in my homeroom class stopped saying it, too—first the ones nearest me, then the ones next to them, and so on across the room. I happened to have a desk in one corner of the room, and by the end of the year a handful of the students in the other corner of the room were the only ones still saying the pledge, and they generally shouted it, raucously or sarcastically depending on their mood. (Makes a pretty interesting complement to the Asch conformity test, come to think of it.)