Thank you, upvoted! (with what little Karma that conveys from me)
It will certainly live as an open tab in my browser, but it doesn’t feel directly usable for me.
What is especially challenging for me is to assign these “is” and “want” numbers with a consistent meaning. My gut feeling doesn’t reliably map to a bare integer. What would help me would be an example (or many examples) of what people mean when a connection to another human feels like a “3” to them, or they want to have a “5″ connection, and so on.
Yep, I’m currently finding the balance between adding enough examples to posts and being sufficiently un-perfectionistic that I post at all.
My current main criterion is something like “Do these people make me feel good, empowered, and give me a sense of community?” I expect that to change over time.
If a simple integer doesn’t work for you, maybe split the two columns into several different categories? If you want to go fancy, weighted factor modelling might be a good tool for that.
Yep, I’m currently finding the balance between adding enough examples to posts and being sufficiently un-perfectionistic that I post at all.
I think it was definitively good that you posted this in its current form, over not posting for want of perfectionism!
As an example which works with integers too: The Decide 10 Rating System. This gives me a sense of the space that is covered by that scale, and it somehow works better for my brain.
Weighted factor modelling sounds interesting and maybe useful, will look into that too. Thanks!
Thank you, upvoted! (with what little Karma that conveys from me)
It will certainly live as an open tab in my browser, but it doesn’t feel directly usable for me.
What is especially challenging for me is to assign these “is” and “want” numbers with a consistent meaning. My gut feeling doesn’t reliably map to a bare integer. What would help me would be an example (or many examples) of what people mean when a connection to another human feels like a “3” to them, or they want to have a “5″ connection, and so on.
Yep, I’m currently finding the balance between adding enough examples to posts and being sufficiently un-perfectionistic that I post at all.
My current main criterion is something like “Do these people make me feel good, empowered, and give me a sense of community?” I expect that to change over time.
If a simple integer doesn’t work for you, maybe split the two columns into several different categories? If you want to go fancy, weighted factor modelling might be a good tool for that.
I think it was definitively good that you posted this in its current form, over not posting for want of perfectionism!
As an example which works with integers too: The Decide 10 Rating System. This gives me a sense of the space that is covered by that scale, and it somehow works better for my brain.
Weighted factor modelling sounds interesting and maybe useful, will look into that too. Thanks!